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Point is, even if I thought the guy was Aspergerish, there’s an alternative. I happen to know a couple, married better than forty years, who, in front of company and at any time, will yell at each other angrily about whether something which happened two weeks ago was in the morning or afternoon. Generally an irrelevant issue and the interrupter is wrong more than half the time. I asked a friend about such nonsense and asked why they expend the energy. What do they expect to get for it? His response was…there’s no energy expense. This is as easy and natural as breathing. It just looks tough from the outside. So, from this, I gather my Aspergerish friend might be the kind of clown who likes to put you in the wrong by pretending your metaphor is completely incomprehensible and it doesn’t take him any energy at all to do it all the time, all his life. Could be. Point is, you deal with them as they are and the causes are not relevant.
When I was in high school, some kids did say I had a dry sense of humor, and that I was kind of cold-hearted. Apparently, I didn’t pay attention to my feelings. My point was you usually come to the conclusion of what you want to happen by feelings–who wants to see a kid abused and that’s a feeling–and then you act logically to fix it. They didn’t get it. But we got along fine and, to the extent some of us are still alive, we still do. And, in fact, we shared some romantic–in the sense of emotional, feelings-first, not getting into a relationship–times.
Am I feelings-based , a romantic, or logical? I was telling my granddaughter the story of Holger the Dane and why I have a coffee cup with a picture of him on it, one eye open, and I misted up. Still do. So. Feelings or logic?
When I go into a conversation with somebody I don’t know, I rarely have an agenda unless it’s sales or something. Otherwise, I try to be as I was advised many years ago “to be like the running stream which goes around rocks and over shallow places but rejoins itself and keeps moving” That was in advance of going into a bad situation where my temper might cause trouble. And, to make a further point, the sensei really do talk like that. Shocked.
And, lastly, when I go into a conversation with somebody I don’t know, one thing I don’t know is their M-B.